The swinging lifestyle has it’s own dictionary, and terminologies that you probably won’t hear anywhere else. A few weeks ago I wrote a blog about some of the words and phrases used only in the swinging community. This blog is about the different abbreviations used in the swinging lifestyle and their meanings. You will mostly see these abbreviations on swingers’ social sites on couples profiles, or anywhere where a couple or single create a profile describing their interest. I would like to think I am very versed at this, but I am sure there are a lot more than I know, but I will do my best at trying to cover the most popular ones. So here we go.
MFMF – This abbreviation typically means Male Female, Man Woman. This is generally used when a couple is only looking for other couples
MMF – Male, Male, Female. Referencing a threesome with two males and a female
FFM – Female, Female Male. Referencing a threesome with two females and one male
HWP – Height Weight Proportion. Use usually in cases when couples want to be specific about the type of physical appearance they are attracted to.
CPL – Couple
BBC – Big Black Cock. Self-explanatory
BBW – Big Beautiful Women. Used to reference plus size women.
LS – This is short for the word “Lifestyle.”
BYOB – Bring Your Own Booze. Not exclusive to the lifestyle community but very commonly used by party organisers and clubs.
BiF – Bisexual Female
BiM – Bisexual Male
BiFM – Referring to a couple where both the male and female are bisexual
DDF – Drub and Disease Free.
BDSM – Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism
NUMP – No Ugly Men Please
DP – Double Penetration. Generally Referencing to one dick in the ass and one in the vagina
DVP – Double Vaginal Penetration. Referencing two dicks in the vagina at the same time
IRC – Interracial Couple
MILF – Mother I’d Like To Fuck
NSA – No Strings Attached
MBA – Married But Available
ISO – In Search Of/ Insignificant Other
I am sure there are several more. Trying to remember all these abbreviations could drive you crazy. It’s like high school all over again. There are some that you will hear very often. I have tried to put all the most commonly used ones in this article for your reference. If you have some you wish to share, please let us know about them by leaving a comment below.